I ran into my friend (and one-time collaborator!) Nick (no relation) the other week, and we sat and chatted about design. I talked a little bit about a tattoo I had recently gotten. In addition to the usual things you ask an artist for (size, location, what you want), I handed the artist a creative brief, set some intentions for what I think it should express, and said that I surrender to their process.
Which means that whatever they make is going to go on my body, roughly. And that’s precisely what happened! My feedback was very minor: shrink this slightly, move this over here, add one tiny thing, and we’re done. The first & second revisions were not materially very different. You would look at the first revision and think yeah, that’s good enough.
Was I expecting the final result? No, because there is no way to conceive of what another person will make for you. When allowing another person to manage the process, all you can really do is be clear about what you want, set a focused intention, and get out of their way.
We’re not naturally wired to do this. We want to feel some sort of agency. We have our own preconceived notions of what the work might end up being. We want to feel like we have control. We want a sense of power.