In advance of another major launch, I wanted to talk a little bit about the role of discernment in our work.
It’s important to negotiate new work from a psychic position of abundance. Even though the work may result in life-altering sums of money, even though the work may be the difference between making a mortgage payment or not, you still must arrive to the discussions of that work as if you can take it or leave it. Prospective clients know otherwise.
Discernment blooms from this position. You’re able to see things as they really are. You’re able to know whether the client is fully present & attentive to the work. You’re able to understand whether the client wishes to co-create that work. And finally, you’re able to understand whether the work is something that will nourish or harm you.
The goal, of course, is to avoid work that is likely to harm you. High-end consultants are on permanent strike from toxic work environments.
When we open new slots, we tend to turn down around 20 clients for every one that we choose to take on. This is discernment in action. After the year we just had, where we got some of the biggest wins of our career, published a new book, and continued our mission of restoring design to its true purpose, we expect nothing less. High-end consulting happens for high-quality clients.
Our redesigned application has a question that is very clear: “Why should we work with you?” Your answer to this tells me everything I need to know about you & how you treat the work. When I sent an early draft of the application to my colleagues for review, someone asked: “Can you really ask that?” And, yes, you totally can. In fact, you can ask anything. And I think right now, that one is pretty important for us to ask.
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